Selfish?

So i have come to the realization that i will easily dead a given situation. a friendship a relationship a job... if im not feeling it im out... recently i have been on some im looking for consistence in everything consistent money consistent friends consistent sex ect... so in my journey i run into ppl who i feel like what the same thing as me be it friendship... or sex... or relationships... once i have a mindset in place its hard for me to switch lanes ie... in a consistent relationship im looking to get to know 1 person spend time ect im a busy dude i work 2 jobs i do music... n im working on my tshirt line again so its like my time that i do have i want to spend it wisely and not be spread thin .... further more if i explain this to u and u agree that ur looking for the same or similar shit and then u switch up wanting to be something other then that like friends imma dead u... not saying ur a bad person but y would i spend my time with 1 chick whos not in it for what im in it for and waste my time in the long run.. like friends for what? either way we all have choices and i put my cards on table with everyone first its u take it or leave it... and if u cant go with taking it im ok wit deading the whole situation... am i selfish?